Ashby Family Law

Founder & Managing Partner

Jordan
Ashby

J.D., NC Board-Certified Family Law Specialist

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In their words

About Jordan.

I started this firm because I wanted to do one kind of work, and I wanted to do it well. I have practiced family law exclusively since I was admitted to the North Carolina State Bar in 2014. There is no other kind of case I take, and there has not been since the firm opened.

I grew up in a household where my parents handled their separation as well as two adults could. I watched what good representation looked like — not because either of them showed me any documents, but because I watched them get through a difficult thing and remain decent to each other. I have spent my career trying to help families do the same. The cases that warrant a fight, get one. Most of them benefit from something more deliberate.

My practice covers the full range of NC family law — divorce, custody, support, equitable distribution, prenups, and adoption — with particular focus on cases involving complex assets and contested custody. I am Board-Certified by the North Carolina State Bar as a specialist in family law, a designation that requires substantial trial experience, peer review, and an examination administered by the Bar.

Outside the firm, I serve on the Family Law Section Council of the NC Bar Association and lecture regularly at CLE programs around the state. I write a quarterly column on NC family law for the Mecklenburg County Bar journal. I live in Charlotte with my partner and two children.

When you call us, you'll talk to a real person. When you engage us, you will know what you are paying for, what we are doing, and why. That is the practice I wanted when I opened the firm, and that is the practice we have now.

Credentials

Education, admissions, and certifications.

Education

  • University of North Carolina School of Law

    J.D. · 2014

    Order of the Coif; Articles Editor, NC Law Review

  • Duke University

    B.A., History (with Distinction) · 2010

    Phi Beta Kappa

Bar Admissions

  • North Carolina State Bar

    Admitted 2014

  • U.S. District Court for the Western District of North Carolina

    Admitted 2015

Certifications

  • Board-Certified Specialist in Family Law, North Carolina State Bar

  • Certified Family Financial Mediator (NC Dispute Resolution Commission)

Professional memberships

  • North Carolina Bar Association · Family Law Section · Section Council
  • American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers · NC Chapter (Fellow)
  • Mecklenburg County Bar · Family Law Committee
  • International Academy of Collaborative Professionals

Recognitions

  • Charlotte Magazine · Best Family Lawyer · 2023, 2024
  • Super Lawyers · North Carolina · 2021, 2022, 2023, 2024
  • Best Lawyers in America · Family Law · 2023, 2024
  • Martindale-Hubbell · AV Preeminent (Peer Reviewed)
  • NC Lawyers Weekly · Leaders in the Law · 2022

Speaking & writing

Recent presentations.

  1. 2024

    Equitable Distribution After the Hidden Asset Era

    NC Bar Association Annual Meeting

  2. 2024

    Coverture Fractions and Equity Compensation in Divorce

    Mecklenburg County Bar CLE

  3. 2023

    Practical Mediation in High-Conflict Custody Cases

    NC Dispute Resolution Commission

  4. 2023

    The Specialist Examination: Preparation and Practice

    NC State Bar Specialization Committee

  5. 2022

    Modifying Long-Term Alimony in NC

    NC Bar Association Family Law Section

Representative matters

Recent matters.

Matter · Jordan
01

Situation

21-year marriage with closely-held business, complex equity compensation, and substantial separate-property tracing.

What we did

Negotiated comprehensive separation agreement following twelve months of classification and valuation work.

Outcome

Settled without trial; client retained operating business interest with offsetting real-estate and retirement allocation.

Past results do not guarantee future outcomes. Each case is unique.

Matter · Jordan
02

Situation

Above-Guidelines child support case, three children, combined parental income > $80,000/month.

What we did

Detailed reasonable-needs analysis and tiered support structure with annual reconciliation.

Outcome

Consent order has held without modification for over four years.

Past results do not guarantee future outcomes. Each case is unique.

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