Ashby Family Law

NC Board-Certified Family Law Specialist · Est. 2014

When the family changes, you need someone who has done this a thousand times.

Charlotte’s family law specialists. Eleven years of divorce, custody, and support cases — handled with the deliberation and discretion they deserve.

4.9 · 217+ reviews
Charlotte Magazine Best Family Lawyer · 2023, 2024
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  • NC Board-Certified Family Law Specialist
  • 11 years family law only
  • Charlotte Magazine Best Family Lawyer 2023, 2024
  • 4.9★ on Google
  • Super Lawyers Rising Stars

How this works

The path from your first call
to your life on the other side.

Most of our clients have never hired a lawyer before. The next four steps are what working with us actually looks like.

  1. 01

    Confidential case evaluation

    A free, 30-minute conversation. We learn about your situation; you learn about us. Whatever you share is confidential. There is no obligation to engage.

  2. 02

    Strategy & engagement

    If you decide to engage us, we draft an engagement letter that explains scope, retainer, and fees in plain language. You will know exactly what you are paying for.

  3. 03

    We handle the courts and the paperwork

    We file, we negotiate, we appear, we mediate, we try the case if we have to. You will be informed at every step. You will not be surprised.

  4. 04

    You get your life back

    Your case finishes with a clear order or agreement. We make sure the implementation — QDROs, deeds, transfers, modifications — actually happens.

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Meet your attorney

Jordan Ashby.

Founder & Managing Partner · J.D., NC Board-Certified Family Law Specialist

I started this firm because I wanted to do one kind of work, and I wanted to do it well. I have practiced family law exclusively since I was admitted to the North Carolina State Bar in 2014. There is no other kind of case I take, and there has not been since the firm opened.

I grew up in a household where my parents handled their separation as well as two adults could. I watched what good representation looked like — not because either of them showed me any documents, but because I watched them get through a difficult thing and remain decent to each other. I have spent my career trying to help families do the same. The cases that warrant a fight, get one. Most of them benefit from something more deliberate.

11

years exclusively in family law

UNC

school of law, 2014

NC Bar

family law section council

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Recent results

Anonymized matters from our practice.

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Situation

21-year marriage. $42M marital estate including a closely-held business, multiple real-estate holdings, and significant separate-property tracing through commingled accounts.

What we did

Built a 90-line classification spreadsheet with documentation for every item. Engaged business appraiser, forensic accountant, and tax counsel. Settled at mediation with detailed integrated agreement.

Outcome

Client retained operating business interest with offsetting real-estate and retirement allocation. Tracing successfully preserved $1.8M of separate-property origin in marital accounts.

Past results do not guarantee future outcomes. Each case is unique.

Situation

Father seeking primary physical custody after separation; mother had proposed weekday-only visitation.

What we did

Documented role as primary caregiver during marriage with school, medical, and extracurricular records. Engaged custody evaluator to assess attachment and routine.

Outcome

Joint legal custody and shared physical custody on a 2-2-5-5 schedule; primary residence designation declined as unnecessary given the schedule.

Past results do not guarantee future outcomes. Each case is unique.

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Situation

Petitioner sought protection following a pattern of escalating threats and one act of physical violence; firearm in the home.

What we did

Same-day ex parte filing with detailed verified petition. Coordinated firearm surrender. Prepared for and prevailed at contested 10-day hearing.

Outcome

Permanent DVPO entered for one year. Coordinated custody filing resulted in temporary custody to petitioner.

Past results do not guarantee future outcomes. Each case is unique.

What clients say

From recent reviews.

4.9★ across 217+ reviews on Google. Read more on the reviews page.

I called Jordan after a friend recommended the firm and was on the phone with him for forty minutes the same day. He told me what to do that week, what not to do, and what the year ahead would look like. By the time we finished my divorce eleven months later, every prediction he made on that first call had turned out to be right. I cannot say strongly enough how much that kind of preparation matters when your life is upside down.

Marcus T. Charlotte, NC

Divorce · with Jordan Ashby

Rivers handled a contested custody modification for me when my ex tried to relocate the kids out of state. She prepared me for hearings, walked me through what the judge would actually want to hear, and held my hand through the parts that were hard. The outcome was better than I had hoped — the kids stayed in their schools, the schedule we have actually works for everyone, and my children's relationship with both parents is intact.

Beth L. Davidson, NC

Custody · with Rivers Okafor

Morgan understood my equity compensation package better than my own HR department did. She caught two classification issues that the original draft from opposing counsel had wrong, and she structured the property division in a way that saved me a substantial amount in taxes. If you are a tech executive going through divorce, you want her on your side of the table.

Daniel R. Matthews, NC

Equitable Distribution · with Morgan Pell

Recognized by

  • Charlotte Magazine
  • Super Lawyers
  • AV Preeminent · Martindale-Hubbell
  • NC Bar Association
  • Best Lawyers in America
  • AAML

Common questions

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These are the questions a person in crisis types into Google at 11pm. We’ve answered them honestly, in plain English.

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